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Vacation and some interesting skid tidbits while I was gone

zerostepdrama's picture

BS11 and I went to Orlando for 5 days at the beginning of November. It was a very nice vacation. Everything turned out really well. I was off of work for a total of 10 days (between vacation and weekends and the Vets Day) so I got some much needed vacation and relaxation time.

Thanks again to NoWire for her tips and advice! Everything was super helpful. And I rode the Mako and didn't die Smile

When we came home from vacation DH was super sick with the stomach flu and continued to be sick for a week. Today he finally went back to work, even though he wasn't feeling 100%. He even ended up in the ER for a bit because he was so dehydrated and his heart rate was up so high. This stomach flu is no joke.

So the juicy stuff....

OSD24 is pregnant again. This will be her 3rd. She already has a 2 and 3 year old. Just a few months ago she was leaving her abusive, drug addict husband. Instead they moved away and she thought it would be smart to get pregnant again. Ugh. So stupid.

BM's soon to be Ex DH sent my DH a Facebook friend request. He of course ignored it. I'm nosey so I am a little curious as to what he wanted. I'm sure it is to gossip about BM and DH could care less. He was legally married to BM for 16 years and they have 4 kids together. He knows all about her. YSD is about to age out in 5 months. There is nothing that her stbxh could say to us that would impact our life in any way. DH knows the BM is trash and a schemer and conniving.

YSD17 sent me a follow request on IG. I ignored it/deleted it. I'm not sure if it's an olive branch. But I just don't want to have to even worry about anything or deal with anything like that when it comes to the skids.

She has ignored me for years on social media, like anything that I tag DH in on FB, etc.

One of my SIL recently posted a picture on her IG of me and DH from Halloween and YSD "liked" it. I was kind of surprised because none of the skids like anything that has to do with me. I had commented on it, so I am guessing that is how she found out my IG name.

I did notice a convo between SIL and YSD on IG and SIL was telling YSD she will try to come for her graduation. That has me on edge already. DH will obviously attend YSD's graduation but that is it. There will be no party or celebration etc., afterwards. So not sure what SIL is expecting. I'm 99% sure she will expect to stay with us. And she is "friends" with BM so I can see her maybe attending graduation celebrations with BM and skids afterwards and then coming back to our house afterwards and I am not sure how I feel about that.


zerostepdrama's picture

Where is there an issue???

DH get FB request- he ignores it.

I get IG request- I ignore it.

I see IG conversation-it does bother me, because I don't want to deal with BM/SIL but I'm not going to delete my IG account over it?

zerostepdrama's picture

Not sure what your problem is... but I'm not going to play this game with you. So unless you have something helpful to add in regards to what I posted then please go bother someone else. I know you're going through a hard time right now so I will be understanding of that... have a blessed day and I hope you start to feel better.

zerostepdrama's picture

Ha Ha this totally looks like I was talking to myself. I guess Jasper deleted her comments??? or got booted????

WalkOnBy's picture

can you delete your comments on a blog that isn't yours??

I don't know how it works, to be honest.

It totally looks like you're talking to yourself!! HA!!!

fakemommy's picture

I think she got booted or deleted her account. This happened on a few threads today. Sad

zerostepdrama's picture

Good idea! I know DH won't turn away his sister. But since he's a man and won't tell me of any plans until last minute, I should start a big reno project right before. LOL!

WalkOnBy's picture

right? don't you need to update that powder room???

I think everything is going well with how you and DH are handling these attempts to connect. I don't know who's giving you crap because the posts are deleted, but I can't see why there would be any crap to fling Smile

zerostepdrama's picture

It was Jasper. I didn't delete her comments though. Hmmmm...

Guest room is on the bottom floor with the family room, second bath. I need a whole floor remodel. }:)

WalkOnBy's picture

I see new floors in your future. And paint. And new fixtures in that bathroom.

Get with Cocktail - she's a designer Smile

Acratopotes's picture

zero - you can cover this as much as you want - you just proofed to us you are stark raving mad - talking to your self on your own blog Blum 3 Blum 3 Blum 3

Now for SD17 - nope do not trust her and keep on ignoring her, it's not an olive branch - she wants something, probably to move in, or a car, or what ever - that olive branch is a knife for your back....

Now for SIL - I also wanted to comment - start renovating the guest room, you know when graduation will be, DH is keeping it all a huge secret, week in advance of SIL's arrival time, take the room apart.... rip carpets out if you have to, make it unlivable and do not tell DH about your plan... if he says something smile and say - but we always agreed that I can change this room and I decided to start now.... he will not say but I told SIL she can stay here, he will keep quiet and phone her and tell her to book a hotel... see you are not the baddy lol