Vacation and some interesting skid tidbits while I was gone
BS11 and I went to Orlando for 5 days at the beginning of November. It was a very nice vacation. Everything turned out really well. I was off of work for a total of 10 days (between vacation and weekends and the Vets Day) so I got some much needed vacation and relaxation time.
Thanks again to NoWire for her tips and advice! Everything was super helpful. And I rode the Mako and didn't die
When we came home from vacation DH was super sick with the stomach flu and continued to be sick for a week. Today he finally went back to work, even though he wasn't feeling 100%. He even ended up in the ER for a bit because he was so dehydrated and his heart rate was up so high. This stomach flu is no joke.
So the juicy stuff....
OSD24 is pregnant again. This will be her 3rd. She already has a 2 and 3 year old. Just a few months ago she was leaving her abusive, drug addict husband. Instead they moved away and she thought it would be smart to get pregnant again. Ugh. So stupid.
BM's soon to be Ex DH sent my DH a Facebook friend request. He of course ignored it. I'm nosey so I am a little curious as to what he wanted. I'm sure it is to gossip about BM and DH could care less. He was legally married to BM for 16 years and they have 4 kids together. He knows all about her. YSD is about to age out in 5 months. There is nothing that her stbxh could say to us that would impact our life in any way. DH knows the BM is trash and a schemer and conniving.
YSD17 sent me a follow request on IG. I ignored it/deleted it. I'm not sure if it's an olive branch. But I just don't want to have to even worry about anything or deal with anything like that when it comes to the skids.
She has ignored me for years on social media, like anything that I tag DH in on FB, etc.
One of my SIL recently posted a picture on her IG of me and DH from Halloween and YSD "liked" it. I was kind of surprised because none of the skids like anything that has to do with me. I had commented on it, so I am guessing that is how she found out my IG name.
I did notice a convo between SIL and YSD on IG and SIL was telling YSD she will try to come for her graduation. That has me on edge already. DH will obviously attend YSD's graduation but that is it. There will be no party or celebration etc., afterwards. So not sure what SIL is expecting. I'm 99% sure she will expect to stay with us. And she is "friends" with BM so I can see her maybe attending graduation celebrations with BM and skids afterwards and then coming back to our house afterwards and I am not sure how I feel about that.