Found out that SS is going around telling people that his dad was an alcoholic when he and BM divorced and that he did not pay CS for several years. Yes, I realize that his BM told him this. It is a lie. She has told so many people so much crap over the years that it is not funny. We assumed that SS was hearing it, but it was still a slap in the face to DH that SS believes it and is telling people this crap.
This is the 18 year old SS that has been living with us for over a year. (Just turned 18). DH’s first reaction is to tell SS the truth about his mother and the truth about DH. Not sure I agree with that and I think DH is on the fence about it. DH was by no means an angel back then, but he was not a drunk and he did always pay CS. BM on the other hand was a great big ole money grubbing whore liar. (I saw a few years of this myself). She used to find guys in bars and start brings SS on sleepovers the day after she met them.
WWYD? Would you FINALLY tell BM to stop talking her shit to everyone that will listen? Would you tell SS the truth about his mom? I myself want to smack the white right off of SS face. But of course, DH says it’s not SS’s fault. He said SS is just repeating what he has been told over the years.
I think SS is an ungrateful little turd!!! 11 MORE WEEKS AND HE IS IN THE military!!!! It can’t come soon enough!! (If he passes the drug test!)