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Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 08/28/2012 - 7:48am

I hate the fact that if SS was not DH’s kid…I would never be around him because of what type of person he is. And I know that SS is DH’s kid, but it still amazes me that DH and BM think this kid is the cream of the crop of humans. Weird.

So last night was SS first night home on leave from the military. And yes, it was all about SS and I completely understand and expect that. But some of the crap that spews out of that boy’s mouth is CRAZY.

SS told MANY stories. Not one of them was a good one. They were all about how he has to correct officers since SS knows the procedures better than them. About how he has nearly been sent to Captain’s mast a few times due to his messing up this that and the other. Except it was NEVER his fault.
And DH is listening to all of this with a huge grin on his face.
After last night’s stories…I am amazed that the military still lets him stay. Now I am paranoid that he will get kicked out. UGH!!

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Submitted by Sweetnothings on Tue, 08/28/2012 - 8:05am

My DH believes every single thing, every single story that the adult skids spew, however outrageous or fishy it sounds. As we do not see them regularly, this news is delivered by the odd email, or if he can get them to answer his phone calls when he rings them , an actual conversation. I would definately NOT allow sdstb22 toxic personality anywhere near me in the normal World, but in SkidWorld, there are no rules to follow....:sick:

Sometimes, I feel like I'm watching some warped social experiment in Adult behaviour, about to get VERY interesting as DH moves from being an ATM in the next few months...... Don't think these ADULTS are going to like the lack of money, so they will up their game probably....

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 08/28/2012 - 8:40am

Sweet...I am waiting to see if DH spends a ton of money or not. I am sure that BM did last week so DH will want to beat her. So sad to see that they both do that crap still.

Very much Kat. Glad to see you back and doing so well. I LOVE being disengaged. It really helped my sanity.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 08/28/2012 - 8:53am

And another thing that is going to get on my nerves it that he constantly points out that he should get special treatment because he is in the military.

And I know he is joking, but very serious at the same time. I need a good comeback to him. Something that does not bash the military, but also does not let him think he is saving my life because he is in the military. Example of just one conversation last night.

SS: Willow..I’m going to go ahead and make my plate.
ME: How about wait until everyone gets here?
SS: I should not have to wait for everyone, I should go first since I am in the service and fighting for everyone’s rights!

There were at least 3 convo’s like that and it got on my last damn nerve.

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Submitted by Bekkah on Tue, 08/28/2012 - 9:11am

I grew up around military people and the most effective way I saw parents deal with that is simply, "Yes, you are in the military fighting so that your father and I can make our own rules in our own home and not be bullied by the military... You know part of that 3rd Amendment you fight to protect?!? So I would really appreciate if you sit down/wait until !"