BM doesn't look bad in pics...except for ones she wasn't expecting...like the ones DH had on fb. Ugh.

But I know WAY too much about her body. It's my own fault. I asked. I feel like hurling just thinking about it.

BM can look "pretty" at times. I have seen uglier then her. She doesn't dress awful or overall her appearance isn't gross.

BM used to be somewhat pretty. But as she has aged and has kids she has gained weight in all the wrong places. Her boobs are saggy. She doesn't dress to appease her body type. She doesnt really know what makeup looks good on her. Also the fact that she isn't a nice person and is miserable that shows through.

She has a weird nose... that is what makes her ugly.

Have you ever looked at a couple and thought wow- the man is a lot better looking then the woman? Like they were together for a long time so you assume when she was younger she looked better, she just hasn't aged well. That is BM and DH.

BM and DH if they were still together wouldn't look right. He is really a handsome man. I hear that a lot. He still has the body of when he was 20. As he has aged, he looks better.

I'm glad that BM isn't prettier then me. Right now I am skinnier (like half her size), younger and I think I dress and present myself better. So I feel like a TRUE upgrade. I guess I am pleased with how she looks. Not too ugly that would make people question my DH but just ugly enough.

With that being said my DH has dated some really ugly women after BM. I have seen pictures and even met a couple of them before. WOOF WOOF. And I am like WTH DH! THOSE woman bother me more. LOL

I've only seen Psycho a couple of times, and I've seen the pic that she has on FB profile. She's attractive. I think she's supposed to be close to my height, not too heavy. Although, meth will do that to ya.

I'm more concerned with how he married her and wants to marry me. My "what were you thinking" face comes out just about every time she texts him, our personalities are so very, very different.

She needs a man to support her.

I have a strong opinion about women taking care of themselves.

I believe you sacrifice for your children when it comes to your needs and their needs (NEEDS, not wants)

I'm positive she doesn't know what the word "sacrifice" means.

I believe you don't use your children to control someone

She sure the hell does believe you use and hurt your child to control and hurt someone else.

BM is as wide as she is tall! I really don't care what she looks like, except DH always liked to say he only dated beautiful women. I almost fell over the first time I ever saw her. I really have question what he thinks of as beautiful.

LMAO@ most responses. The BM here is actually pretty. She looks EXACTLY and I mean to a freakin T. like Sarah Jessica Parker.. Blonde, extra thin and petite. Same snout and mouth..everything. It's like they're twins. But, because I know how she really is, she is disgusting and vile and very troll like on the inside.

bm isn't bad looking and has always been smaller than me. I really don't care if she's drop dead gorgeous, ugly as sin, or somewhere in the middle. as long as she doesn't cause problems, I don't even think about her.

This isn't answering the questions but I'd like my skids to have a mother that put their needs first and helped them be the people they have the potential to be. Parent them and not be their friend. I do not care what she looks like, just put these 2 boys higher up on the priority scale than the dogs.

BM used to be attractive... at least that's what DH says. She's never been much to look at in the face in my opinion, she's just plain.

She's now about 260-300 lbs. & 5'2. She blames this on her 'thyroid disorder' that she made up when she got fat after her 2nd child (not DH's)

BM is ugly inside and out.

I live in a very outdoorsy area where women are known for the natural look. As they get to middle age… they're usually not looking so hot, since there has been zero upkeep. Unkempt wirey grey hair, no makeup, no sense of style. It's very rare to see a put-together middle aged woman here. BM manages to look worse than most, which is quite an achievement.

BM is at least 10 years older than me, and is still going for the sporty natural look. As a result, she looks 20 years older than she is. I'm not joking.

My SO looks better and better with age. He was pudgy when he was with BM, and now he's slim with muscles. He's very dapper and youthful in looks and spirit. When I see them having to interact, I laugh. It honestly looks like he's talking with someone who might be mistaken for his mother.

She seems really confused about me, and I think she expected that I wouldn't be around for long. I'm nearing 40, but I take care of myself and look like I'm in my early 20s. BM seems to have expected SO to be pining away for her. She doesn't know how to handle him upgrading so severely and having the audacity to be happy and in love. It must burn!

Hmm good question. I'd prefer beautiful, to reflect on his taste. She isn't beautiful, but she's not ugly. Too bad about her personality, it sours her look. I am beautiful, whether I think so or not I'm told so all the time by my hubby. Though I do believe I'm better looking than his ex, that's something I never worry about.

BM 1 was never beautiful, but she was ok. The chronic alcohol consumption has weathered her and her teeth are in poor repair. She is highly manipulative. I tried to get along with her, in the beginning but shortly after DH and I got together, she had one too many bottles of wine and she practically molested me in front of DH's family. No more.

BM2 was a beautiful woman, in her younger years. Three kids and lots of couch surfing later, she has not aged well. She is a nasty cuss as well.

Meh.... it wouldn't matter to me if they were still beautiful. Beautiful... ugly... I think they would be the same and their impact the same.

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BM isn't hideous...just very plain jane and boring...very boring....I think I described her pretty well in the other blogs!

BM is attractive. She's probably a size 0-2, boob job, blond hair. I try not to put too much into looks though, I've heard too many times to count that my pretty face was what has helped me get a foot up in life-like hard work and motivation have nothing to do with it. DH thinks I'm beautiful and smart, that makes me feel good

BM1 is okay, fake boobs but a money hungry whore who has kids just for the child support it gets her.

BM2 is ragged. She's very overweight (lots of fast food) and can't do her make up to save her life. It looks like a child has applied it. Maybe worse. She swears up and down she's the same size as she was before they married. I've seen pictures - not even close.

Getting pregnant turned a relatively good looking 40+ woman into a haggard beast. I already know DH has a thing for older women and bigger women, he's in his late 30's but his upper limit is like... good looking 60. Not sure what is up with either of these types of fetishes but they're more common than we think. I have no problem either way whether she is good looking for not, but it gives me some sick satisfaction knowing that having that baby turned her horrendous when her looks used to be something she prided herself on, whereas I have never gotten hit on as often as I have after having BD.

Must be something about filling out and being more womanly than girly (being asian tends to make you look 12 years old.)

I think no matter how good looking someone is, if their heart is bad, sooner or later it comes out and they will never be truly loved because they don't know how to give true.