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Tiger7's picture

Just venting....my SO's 17 yr old is a manipulative b*tch. This weekend is his with both his girls...she texted him last nite that she won't be coming over. It was all I could do to stop myself from breaking into a happy dance. I'm sure she'll call him for something tho...a ride somewhere or money. I'm just glad she won't be with us. Vent over..for now.

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ESMOD's picture

Hopefully at 17 she will have a busy social schedule and have little time for visitation. I know I spent pretty much zero waking time at home at that age between after school jobs and sports etc..

Tiger7's picture

So much drama with that one. When she's with us, she has no social life. Her father and I don't know her friends and she's not allowed to be at our home (technically my house) alone. We don't trust her. She makes bad decisions.

DaizyDuke's picture

Ugh I hear you sister. My SD19 is thankfully 3 states away at university and got an apartment with her BF this year, so hopefully will never have a reason to stay at our house again. The 2 years that she lived with us (ages 14-16) were hell. I don't know how my marriage survived. The minute she left? Peace. Now, looking back, DH can see that she was the catalyst to the drama in our house.. not me, not our BS7, HER. He also caught her in a bunch of lies and caught on to her manipulation tactics and is much better about not playing guilty daddy anymore.

Tiger7's picture

You hit the nail on the head. My SO parents out of guilt. He's beginning to see the light. Her BM kicked her out last week and wanted us to take her in...I said hell no because of her drama. She's currently staying with a friend. Supposed to go back to her mom's this weekend. They're both nuts