Sorry ya'll. I havent posted in a couple months because I've been so busy teaching, moving, and having my wedding, that everything else had to be put on a back burner for a while. The latest "incident" involving BM - DH and I were just married one week ago on 7/7/07. Today we received in the mail, a Photo CD from Their wedding 8 years ago with a note saying that she "ran across it" while unpacking some boxes and thought that he may want it. Also included was a piece of notebook paper with the date 7/7/07 written on the top. Underneath that, she wrote "I Love You" then had SD write her name on the bottom of the page. This is no coincidence in my opinion. I took that photo CD and I have mailed it back to her with a note stating in very clear terms that we don't want the CD and she is welcome to save it for SD to view when she is old enough. OH... speaking of moving - my DH and I moved into the home that he and his ex shared while they were married. The house was on the market for more than a year, and it never got a single offer. She was living in it and he was paying the mortgage. Finally, he had enough and had the court force her out. Now we know why the house never sold. There was piles dog crap dried on the floors that was never cleaned up, every carpet had piss stains on them, every electrical outlet had been pulled out and wires were exposed, all the walls had huge gouges, the wiring for the professional installed projection TV and equiptment in their home theater had been ripped out, she super-glued all of the stereo equiptment awarded to him in the divorce, and there was one of his military pictures hanging in the basement, that had a bullet hole in his head, and puffy red paint oozing down his face. Not only that, but she left garbage on the floors. Not junk, but actual garbage, like used food wrappers and stuff. It took us two weeks to repair all the damage to the house. And, it's a $300,000 home on a golf course! Not a scuzzy home in the projects! We took pictures of everything for proof. Right now, we're living in the house until it sells so that we don't have to pay a double mortgage. As soon as it sells, we're getting our own. She is an lunatic! I told my DH that we should file a complaint to the police department regarding the photo. I think it's a threat. Even if nothing ever comes of it, I think we should still have it on file as a complaint. My BD8 saw the photo, and has been scared to be by herself in any room since we've been there, and has asked if BM is going to come and shoot DH? What would you do?