How stupid/entitled/irresponsible/immoral/unprepared for adulthood was/is BM?
Got a nice thick package in the mail the other day- from a new lawyer- about impending foreclosure of their former marital residence, which DH signed over ENTIRELY to her in their divorce (she put $ down on that residence with proceeds from sale of her apartment plus a generous "loan" made to her by a gentleman "business acquaintance" who she never paid back because "he had plenty of money and wouldn't need it to be paid back")...um...anyway.
She has not paid her mortgage or taxes in quite a while. Began trying to sell the place, had one offer, which fell through. In the meantime, she has flown herself and SSs to see her family in UK four times, and plans to go for the holidays as well. This woman is the queen of living beyond her means and letting other people pay for it. Just fantastic that DH's name is still on the mortgage. His divorce document is pretty precisely worded and his attorney says this packet is pretty standard procedure for foreclosure proceedings. But still.
What's the saying? Marriage isn't forever but divorce with kids is, or something to that effect? Who the hell knows what this woman would have done had it not been for the axe that she refuses to stop grinding....six years later. UGH!