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Why are we the bad guys

sweetthing's picture

when you point out that the kid has out & out lied? How is that picking on a kid. SS almost 11 recently got glasses, 2 pairs. W/in 2 weeks the expensive pair that had flexy hinges for baseball were broken. We only learned this when we asked why he was wearing the other pair. The bow supposedly just broke while he was just sitting there not touching them in math class. The same class he just fell out of his chair during the class for no reason ( neither parent seems to wonder about this because he has a 97 in the class so this stuff is okay). So on Friday I pick up the kids & BM sends message through them to see if I will take him to pick up the new glasses, I get to see the broken ones. The bow is sticking straight up, how the heck does that happen if you are screwing around with them, especially when you have a history of being unable to stay on task & keep your hands to yourself???

Sunday night when we were dropping him off I asked do you have both pairs of glasses, kid looks right at me & says yes. Really, I found the case sitting in the dining room last night. So I tell DH the whole story & of course I am picking on him because of the whole gate incident the day before where the dog got loose because SS can't remember that he has to shut it. Thank goodness we have me to blame so the kid can be perfect.

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WickedStepMom18's picture

OMG! Lady - my life is a living hell right now. I know that your last sentence wasn't meant to be funny but I could hear the sarcasm. Thank you for making me laugh. It's always our fault. I am going to tattoo that on my forehead. MY FAULT!! Smile

Auteur's picture

Why? Because the truth is coming out of OUR mouths. Now if a renowned expert who wasn't in anyway personally involved said the exact same thing as us, well then, that would be taken maybe a bit more seriously!!

sweetthing's picture

THing is, I get along with the kids very well. Sometimes I don't think Dh gets just how lucky he is that the three of us have a real relationship that doesn't even need to have him involved. SS 13 is about as perfect as you can get, the only trouble we ever have is with the younger one. Anytime I bring this stuff up, I am the bad guy. How many items need to be broken, or does it take the death of the family doig or BS getting hurt for someone to say, geez, you think that there is an issue? I am not thinking medication, just making sure the kid has the right tools to stay on task & be aware of his surroundings. If you think a story is unbelievable then call him on it JUST like you do our son who will be 4 in July.

StillSearching's picture

Yep we are always the bad guys! I also like how when I say something about their behaviors my BF tells me "I don't like them" can't even give out an honest opinion anymore without those accusations!

sweetthing's picture

I am going to just put those glasses up & see how long it takes either BM or SS to wonder where they are.