Spouse's Ex Threatens over Defammation And I think my Computer or blog has been hacked
Well, in the event that anyone knows my spouse's ex, you can kindly give her this little message....because frankly I'm tired of her narcissistic games.
Back off, Bite me, And don't ever threaten me again! I am starting to think that someone may have my IP so, I'll quickly give them a heads up and cut to the chase....I won't help you. You're on your own. Back off, you old wrinked 'ho. I've done nothing wrong but be kind to your children for years and despite that, you have always chosen to repay my kindness through your callous, bitter contempt, and spiteful jealous. Your daughter's behavior is nothing but a window of your soul for all the world to see. And no one forced her to strike out those ugly words on the keyboard. Children learn what they are taught. And obviously, it is quite evident, that she was taught nothing but ugliness, contempt, and hostility for all the years she has been with you.
This has been a good feeling for me, in case of those of you who don't understand what has been going on. (But most of you are familiar with this perverse situation)Anyways, it wouldn't surprise me, if there is someone tunneling through my stuff, so maybe this will get there faster.
If it does, I guess we know that there's a leak here, somewheres.......And for the rest of you watch out. Cause you're not safe.
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Hacked??
Sweetie,
It doesn't sound like things are going good. The subject of your post mentions threats of defamation. Can you elaborate?
As long as you don't post any personal information with the intent of harming someone else's reputation, there are no grounds for defamation. Especially since no real names are, or ever should be, used in any posts on this site.
Your last sentence has me a little confused. Do you mean that someone from your husband's ex's family has been reading your posts here? I hope you realize, and I hope everyone else does also, that this site and ALL of it's content are open to the public. Most of the users on this site found it by searching for something related to their problem that someone else has already discussed on this site. That’s how it works, and it’s a great thing!
Everyone should understand that this site is here for us to vent and get help, but it is a public forum, which means that anyone, including the people you are talking about, can read what you're posting. That's the whole point of a blog or a forum, public readers. You have an issue to discuss, we listen and help, and someone down the road with a similar issue finds our discussions and it hopefully helps them. That's the idea any way.
There should be no need to fear venting here as long as you keep in mind what I've just said. Don't use your real name, or a well-known nickname on this site if you're afraid that someone you don't want reading your stuff will find it. That goes for any site on the Internet that you might post to. It's just common sense.
Did you mention that you have been blogging about your situation to anyone that might have told the ex? It wouldn't be hard for someone to find this site using Google if they used the right search terms, especially if they knew enough details of the situation. Do you use the name Sweetie on any other sites, or is it your nickname? That would make it even easier for someone to find your posts. Just some ideas to calm your suspicions.
I hope it all works out for you and your husband. We're here to listen and help.
No common nicknames, just too many coinydinks
Hi Sympathetic BioDad,
I've been very careful not to use names. It's just that a comment that SD made with defammation on both her xanga and myspace mentioned that I "flipped" about her comment that she used about calling saying for all she knew I was a man. The only place I've mentioned that was here. The only person that ever calls me Sweetie is my spouse. And the only one who has ever heard that nickname is SD. But I think she has been trying to track my IP. SD is very hostile and has gone so far as to use defammatory remarks on her blogsite, going as far as to use my real name and remark in bold that I am a cyberstalker and sexual predator. So, I've been in a complete turmoil for a week--completely upset. My spouse is ready to break her neck. And SD thinks it's a big joke. But my husband says as far as he's concerned, she's dead. Biomom is not taking the matter seriously, either which is just adding fuel to the fire. She has told us one thing, and then done another. So, I had to look for outside help. I hope that this explains things a bit better. I'm not losing my mind. Just have absolutely no one around here to trust. Can't trust stepson, either, seems that he is back in cahoots with biomom, again. So, we are back to square one.
Understood
I see. So she's the one making the defammatory remarks, not you. That makes more sense. I thought you meant that she was blaming you for posting those type of remarks on this site. I understand now.
As far as her tracking your IP, your IP isn't published on this site so there is no way that she found your posts here mearly by "tracking your IP". Believe me when I say that there is no way, even if she really did know your IP, she could use it to find this site. Someone had to tell her about this site, or she found it by using Google or MSN search.
She might be able to determine your IP from her blog logs, but if she get's any traffic at all it would be difficult to determine which visitor was actually you. Besides, there's nothing that she could do with your IP address anyway except possibly ban your IP from being able to read her blog. She would have to be much more intelligent to do anything else with it.
You will get through this
Hi! the situation you are in is terrible..I wish you patience and all the best! I am familiar with hacking fb accounts, as I've had a crazy ex who used to control every step I take. She actually used some apps that can track other person's phone. I have found a blog, they might also be using something like this - https://www.top10spyapps.com/facebook-spy-app/