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SD said that BM will fight me when she sees me... LOL

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Submitted by stepmom31 on Thu, 07/04/2013 - 4:08pm

DH and I had a small argument and so I stayed at home while he took all the kids to see fireworks last night (and boy did I have a blast not having to deal with traffic, kids or rain! And today DH is being sweet as a button because he learnt his lesson! LOL) My SIL and her kids went too.

Anyway, SIL told me today that
1. The SKids talked shit about me to her the whole time.
2. BM is now copying SD15 on all emails, and forwarding our emails to SD as well.
3. SD said that BM will fight me when she sees me.

If there is anything good about this, it's that BM is emailing instead of calling and all her bullshit is documented.

Guess what she asked for in the latest email with SD copied? *ka-ching* Money to help with back to school expenses. We'll help, but won't be giving $, we'll buy stuff for the kids as we always do.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Thu, 07/04/2013 - 4:40pm

How old is your SIL? Why in the world world would she get involved in he said she said crap?

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Submitted by realitycheckmom on Thu, 07/04/2013 - 4:45pm

BM has made SD feel like a confidant and an adult and now SD is trying to act like one with SIL. Best for SIL to nip that in the bud along with DH. SIL needs to let SD know that she is a child and has no business discussing these things and she wants no part of it. That will shut SD down pretty fast.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Thu, 07/04/2013 - 4:56pm

THIS

She should have made the kids hush up and kept what she heard to herself.

I'm wondering if she was talking about you as well.

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Submitted by stepmom31 on Thu, 07/04/2013 - 6:57pm

I know that SIL isn't pushing the talk, she said asked them to stop because she couldn't take it anymore, especially when they started to talk shit about my kids.

But the SKids do think that she's neutral or on their mom's side, and have always talked to her about me. She has tried to be friends with BM, so as to have access to kids on BM's time.

SIL is a BM herself, and married to my BIL who is father to her baby and a full-time stepdad to her 2 other boys. Both she and my BIL have stood up for me when the Skids were being disrespectful to me because DH wasn't present and I love them to death for that. She might be BM's acquaintance but she's like my sister, and your sister will damn well come and tell you if someone's talking shit about you.

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Submitted by Onefootout on Thu, 07/04/2013 - 5:16pm

Ha, ha! Right now I'm picturing those women on WWE fighting in the ring. You go kick BM's butt! Wink

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Submitted by misSTEP on Fri, 07/05/2013 - 9:19am

Might be worth a trip to the lawyer to have him/her send a strongly worded letter that their child(ren) are NOT to be involved in adult situations or conversations and to place them in the middle is harmful to their well-being.