My SO and I got back from an amazing, glorious, 12 days in Italy, where neither of us wanted to come home, to a complete sh*t show where I now hate my job situation so much I've started applying for new positions, my SO's Job got extremely stressful, we are both on edge, and to top it off we have skids for 12 days in a row, and it's all just a bit much. 
 

The kicker happened last night. My SO is currently on day shift, and he leaves before all of us. SD10 takes meds 3 times a day, one at 8am, although she has to take them a little earlier, before she leaves for school. In summer, I go I to work early, so SS reminds her to take the meds, with my SO even texting reminders. One day she still didn't take it, so now my SO put the meds right on the kitchen island where you can't miss it. Now that I'm going in to work at 8, I tell SD to come take her meds "right now". Not "hey don't forget to take your meds"....I make her come Into the kitchen and take them. We never have to actually watch her take them, she just does it. Yesterday I told her to come take them, she came into the kitchen, and I was busy packing my lunch. I was in the garage last night painting a cabinet when my SO got home with skids, and he came into the garage and yelled at me that I need to make sure she is taking her meds, she didn't take them that morning and then told Crazy that she "hadn't taken them in the morning in days" (which is absolutely not true), and he got a ton of messages on The Family Wizard from Crazy saying SD hadn't taken her meds and she was going to "do whatever she needed to do to protect her", which most likely means getting CPS involved AGAIN, and it was going to turn Into a whole thing. I let him cool down a bit, then came Into the house and told him there is no need to yell at me for it, I'm not a child. He got all worked up again, and I said I can't help it your daughter decided not to listen to me, but she actually got up and came Into the kitchen when I told her to take her meds, I can't even fathom why she wouldn't have taken them. Or why she would lie and say she hadn't taken them in days, except that her new thing is to exaggerate about everything to make stories more dramatic. My SO must have lit into SD pretty hard and sent her to bed early, and he also took her phone. SS13 also made himself scarce.
 

SO and I went to bed not talking after he mentioned how he wrote Crazy and said she wasn't following the new communication guidelines (she went off on a crazy tangent, he didn't tell me all that she said), and he told her she couldn't even follow the new guidelines that were written. I told him to just respond "Contempt of Court", then he went on and on about how nothing would happen, the courts would never do anything about it, he KNOWS that, he's dealt with them, blah blah blah. I told him he doesn't know everything about court and he's never even tried to file for a violation of a court order, which he argued again that he knows nothing would happen. He said he would be giving SD her meds himself before he goes to work from now on since he "can't trust anyone". Fine by me! I never asked to be in charge of this crap! We just gave up and went to bed not talking. 
 

This morning I heard him yell at SD again, and I was just livid at her and the whole situation, because I'm sure I will have to talk to CPS again, and it's all because she didn't listen, and then lied, and why would she tell Crazy that anyway??? I opened the fridge and see the package of tortillas sitting wide open....i have told SD approximately 100 times to close them or they will get hard (i told her twice yesterday) and she didn't do it again.  I snapped. I yelled at her to close them, then asked her why she didn't take her meds yesterday when I told her to, and why she lied to her mom? She said she didn't know. I actually got teary and said she had no idea what she did- her mom sent her dad a ton of messages, CPS will probably get involved and I will have to talk to them, all because she didn't listen and then lied. I told her that I know she thinks it's cute to exaggerate stories, but it's not, and now this is a huge deal. I said I am so mad, and left. 
 

Now a b*tch I work with just decided to copy our bosses boss on an email to point out that I made a mistake (I put the wrong account number on something on accident- big deal). She went out of her way to add him back on the email to show that I made the mistake. I hate these bitches I work with, and I don't even want to deal with another debacle with Crazy. 
 

gah!!!