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Sonomama30's picture

OK, so my FH and i along with my BD5 and SS6 all live together full time. BM got fired from folding clothes back in april so she has been a little more involved the past few months since she has nothing else to do. SS6 is a compleatly different child when he comes home from BM's, its seriously disturbing and FH thinks i "over react", SS6 is usually up my ass when he is home and always laughing, and happy and playing its great. Yesterday, he had b ball and since he is at BM;s she had to bring him. so, here we go, i came late and walked past BM holding back the vomit and SS6 seen me. He smiled a really big ( surprising) smile and quickly turned to BM and the smile like VANISHED. FH seen this. he told me that SS6 is confused???? REALLY?, per FH " SS6 is confused because when his BM and the woman who cares for him are in the same room he dosent know what do to'? hummmmmm??? ok??? unfortunatily SS6 1/2 DNA stran is not of a human nature and so these distrubing acts could not possibly be influnced from BM,, oohh nooo,, she never talks about me... ASSHOLE.
Kindergarden and 1sdt grade were a breeze, she never came to shit or did anything, he went there like????? 3 saturday nights in 2 years. SO NOW, since she dosent have a job, whenever her bum ass white trash boyfriend ( no exaggeration) lets BM use her car, she " WANTS TO SEE HER SON". i know this school year will be pure HELL for me. She will be at open house sitting in his chair, making him his b day cupcakes, going to soccer games, baseball games, demanding we give her some school pictures etc....SOoooooo this year, i say "LET HER"!!
I;m the one who washes his clothes, makes his bed, packs his lunch (with shit he actually eats), arranges play dates, takes him for hair cuts, stays home from work when he is sick, reads to him and sings to him at bed time, feed him, bathe him/shower, pays HER half of shit for him, prodives a HOUSE for him to live in, I'm the one that the teacher comments of a wonderful well adjuested child on report cards are from ME!!! So yeah, bitch, come to soccer games and make his cupcakes this year, buy him his DS games and little cha-ckees whatever, his is a great boy because of ME!! and what you should do is thank you x husband for choosing a better woman to raise his son! Eat Shit cunt face FETUS HOLDER!!! Smile

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Anywho78's picture

Oh ouch! That would most certainly tan my hide! I complain that BM Nasty shows no interest in her spawn but if I had her at every function I'd probably lose my mind!

Doesn't sound like she's paying CS due to you paying "HER half of shit for him"...go through the CSA, that will at least wipe the smug grin off of her "fetus holder" face. Love that BTW Smile

bribaby1105's picture

I wouldn't be too worried about your SS. He is probably confused because he doesn't understand the dynamics of what is going on. He will probably always have a soft spot for his mother until he is old enough to understand what actually happened. Kids at that age love their parents unconditionally. It is hard, I know because I was in your exact same spot. Eventually he will come around and realize who really cares for him; my step daughter finally did around 10 years old. If she takes an active and positive role in his life, it can't hurt. Unfortuantely as adults, we have sometimes have to deal with things even though it hurts.

Bubbly1's picture

You are awesome Sonomama30!! "Fetus Holder" I'm soOoo gonna use that next time bm pisses me off!