Dont have a good title, just need opinons!!
BD5 came home from a 4 night stay at bio dad's back in july. when i went to pick her up, i noticed that she had all "bug bites" on her face and arms. i asked him what this was and he had no clue ( typical ),, so that next day i took her to the doctor and he said they were "insect bites", i said " BED BUGS??" he said " nope, insect bites",,,, she did go to the beach with dio dad and new wifey the day before but the "bites" were only on her face and some on her arms,, none on her legs or below her neck.. i told bio dad that the doctor said she cant go there again until the "bites" went away.. ok, so here we are end of aug and they are gone. i spoke to wifey ( easier to talk to than asshole bio dad) and they want to get her for fri sept 2 til sun sept 4. im still thinking about it. Wifey also told me that on 9/25 they are chistening there offspring and would like BD to be there on that sunday. i also said i will get back to her on that.
SOOOO,, my FH is PISSED, that im actually thinking about letting her go down there again when it could have been bed bugs. also, bio dad is such as ass and he dosent make any effort and he said that i should not even take her 1 way to or from the christening for her step bro. I understand why he is upset, i go fuckin bonkers when BM resurfaces and wants to be supermom and i go crazy on FH.
i want BD to see her dad, she really loves spending time with his family and she loves going there. i dont want FH to get upset because he usually bends my way when it comes to BM and SS. ( SS lives with ud full time) im confused.
p.s. when the bites were going away i told bio dad that he could come here and take her for a play date at the mall or movies,,ect whenever he wanted, he never did. this also has FH pissed also.
what do i do??