DH is on my last raw nerve. My BS18 is a complete butthead right now. He's rude, obstinate, lazy, refuses to take his meds, find a new therapist or go to orthodontist appointments. He got banned from his high school campus the last few weeks and then kicked out of the trade school he got into. I told him he either plays by my rules or he's on his own. He told me to go f*ck myself. He's at a homeless shelter now, refused to find a job for the month we paid his rent. Now my DH wants to get him a freaking car and keeps giving him money and has talked to the union reps on his job site to get the little jerk a job. THEN he filled out the paperwork for BS to be an apprentice. WHAT THE F*CK???
I keep telling DH to knock it off and he keeps saying it's my kid and don't I want him to be set up for success? I do! I've tried! The kid deliberately sabatoges everything we do for him to prove that he doesn't need us or anything. *shrug*