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BM let her house become the drug house

smurfy1smile's picture

I have not had anything to be concerned about for a while. It was so nice but not anymore...

BM moved the end of May into a rental townhouse about 2 miles from the house she got in the divorce and it supposed to fix up and sell. The neighbors of the house have been calling BF all day telling him that BM is renting the house to her boyfriend's kid(s). Apparently over the past 2 weeks that they have lived in the house, there have been numerous police calls for noise issues, parties, cars parked on the street overnight, revving car engines late at night, etc. BF has been told a couple of young woman live in the house and at least one is only 18. This morning one of BM's "tenants" tried to break into the neighbor across the streets house. We have only had BM's new address for a couple of weeks and only after BF reminded her that it is in the court order that she has to disclose where she and the baby are living. BF spoke with a police officer ans was advised that since his name is still on the house, he is liable if anything happens. The officer also advised him to call his attorney. Some of the neighbors thinjk there may be drug deals going on at the house too - lots of people coming over and not staying for very long all hours of the day and night. We have run the license plates of all the cars we have seen at the house and the plates the neighbors have given us and we can only come up with guys names and most of them are 35 plus.

BF is beside himself. He feels terrible that he has to apologize to his former neighbors for BM's behavior. BM is still making bad choices. For now, we are sitting on this information and gathering all the information we can before BF acts. This is not the kind of environment for a 8 month old little boy. Granted, BM and baby are not technically living in the house, but they do go over there quite often so the little man is explosed to all this craziness.

HELP!

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goingcrazy's picture

my SD's mom at that house??? LMAO!! Sorry, you mention a drug house and the first thing I think of is crack whore BM.

Use that information to help prove her unfit. It still amazes me at the stupid things BM's do. Makes you wonder why they ever had the kids.

"Having a family is like having a bowling alley installed in your head." ...Martin Mull

Sia's picture

Funny...GC...funny.

smurfy1smile's picture

It just sucks that we get this information the night before we leave for a much needed, child free vacation with my BF's family. I hope nothing blows up, burns down, etc while we are gone.

Sia's picture

vacation, and DO NOT worry about her while you are gone.....vacations are suppose to be stress free! Smile