Drama and Manipulation
Well, so much for "starting over" with my boyfriend's daughter - Friday she called from her job and said that she felt faint and had to come to the house until biomom got out of work. So, she spent the afternoon at the house, had something to eat (claims she hadn't eaten in 2 days and that's why she felt faint - self infliction = I have a feeling the job won't last too long). When I got home, she told me her dad had to bring her to biomom's house to get clothes for her job the next day (she decided she would spend the weekend with us). Dad begrudgingly drove her home and explained we weren't running back and forth to get her belongings all weekend. She came back with only her cell phone charger. Thereafter, she manipulated her father into letting her go to a friend's house. The biomom called looking for her within an hour after she went to a friend's, starting screaming at my boyfriend that she was supposed to be spending the weekend with him, not at a friend's house (again - biomom trying to control both households). My boyfriend thereafter received a call from daughter and he told her to be home no later than 10:00 p.m. She then called biomom, biomom told her she could stay until 11:00 p.m. and biomom would pick her up. Haven't seen her since. More manipulation by the daughter and more meddling by the biomom who validates the daughter's manipulative behavior. UGH!