Thanks for the reminder YSS
Maybe it’s the fact my BS is coming home for a visit this weekend or who knows why, I had the warm and fuzzies! As I’m walking down the hall to give DH a kiss goodbye I was thinking to myself....”Next weekend is DHs birthday. Maybe I should plan for YSS to come over that night and we can all go out to dinner to celebrate”. I mean it isn’t like OSs or MSS will even acknowledge DH so why not make it a good evening for DH.
Then YSS reminds me of why this will not be happening. DH and I were discussing what snacks and food YSS and BS would like this weekend since they both eat a ton. DH was trying to hard to get YSS to talk to him and YSS was mute. YSS just stormed through the kitchen with a scowl and an attitude. He was rude and moody!
THIS is exactly the reason I will not be spending extra time or money inviting YSS on our dinner out.
Now im not totally evil, I will plan a birthday cake and presents next week while YSS is here for his regulR visit. But no extras for dinner on DHs actual birthday.
And I will make it a surprise so DH can’t invite YSS along.
Thanks YSS for reminding me exactly why I disengage from your brothers and eventually you.