Cell phone invasion
not sure how to deal with this issue...yes I have disengaged for the most part but some issues still creep in. My issue deals with my YSS11 and his cell phone. YSS is a pretty good kid and he and I get along much better than I ever did with OSS or MSS (who we never see anymore). YSS isn’t exactly the issue or even the cell phone. But how the phone is used is what eats at me.
There are times where DH and YSS will have conversations about what activities they would like to do. For example...DH mentioned taking YSS to a haunted house last weekend. The plans got changed because of YSSs sporting event being scheduled at the same evening they were planning to go to the haunted house. Totally understandable.
However, YSS then gets constant text messages from BM asking if DH took him to the haunted house...(she also knew the sporting event caused the issue) and questions YSS as to WHY DH didn’t take him and when he is going to take him. She does the same thing with even small things. YSS will ask for something from DH. DH will tell YSS he will get it on payday and BM will send YSS message after message asking about whatever DH was to buy.
It looks like BM is trying to point out toYSS and faults in DH like “Why didn’t your dad do cuz like he promised??” Even when she knows the valid reason.
I understand I can’t make her stop but part of me wants to grab his phone and reply a “not so nice” response. I would never do that..:but ughhh that just irks me.
Anyone else experience this and have a good way to deal with it?