And the cycle continues
BM has PASd oss21 and mss17 to the point they hate DH. DH has done nothing wrong but BM has bashed him repeatedly to the point they make up Imaginary offenses and refuse contact. It started slowly at first with the “you never take us to do fun things” crap as well as “you never buy us...(insert the demand of the moment) DH works weekend and BM uses that as a nail to drive through his heart with the SSs. Every missed ballgame, BM was bashing DH to the SSs. Every time he worked late they were rude and nasty to DH. You get the point.
After a few years of DH trying to fight the PAS and tolerating their horrible behavior, he finally gave up. He hasn’t seen it talked to them in two years.
That leaves yss12...he has been pro DH all along. He says his brothers are the ones at fault and treat DH badly.
Dh didn’t get to see YSS last because he had to work out of town. We are supposed to get YSS tonight. Last night he text DH and starts the whole guilt trip crap that is straight out of the mouth of BM. “your job has you work too much” “we never do things together” And now YSS is dictating when he will and won’t come. Just like the older two started.
Dh had a feeling BM would start this crap soon enough. This is the age she started with the older two.
I lived this with DH the first two rounds....I am
already to throw my hands up and give in. I’m praying this doesn’t throw DH into a Disney dad to buy YSSs love. It won’t work...the force is strong with BM.
Gawd I hate her!