Checking in :)
Hey there old timers-if there are any still around.
Just wanted to pop in and say hi. Life is good. Due to start grad school this fall if my financial aid goes thru. If not I have a potential full time gig lined up.
And...I'm in love.
An old friend, who used to be married to a friend of mine. He is cultural and that's a first for me. Very nice to have so much in common. Sweet man who is very kind to DD.
It was a rough 5 months before I took my wall down. But he just patiently awaited me to do it. It's the first time someone didn't actively scale that wall and wasn't particularly interested in saving me from someone or something else. And that too has been a tremendous growth experience for me.
And...he has...no kids. But likes kids and is great with my kids. He's in no hurry to get somewhere and actually neither am I.
Hope everyone here is doing well, is moving toward a better time after adjusting to the chaos. I will be specializing in helping blended families and high conflict divorces. At least that's the plan.
It is a freeing beautiful thing to let go of what was never really in my control anyway. I am the lightest I've been in about a decade. Life is just joyful. Blissful. Love filled. And zero drama.
Thanks to all from here who helped to lift me thru those dark days of 2009-2011. I don't know how I would have reached this point without you all.