Let's just do the opposite of what I want
Well SIL got SD12 this weekend for a family birthday party, with last minute notice. We were out of town seeing my parents which we had planned for over a month. On the drive home my husband felt guilty and wanted to see SD since SIL had been guilting him about not being around this weekend. (Oh so we should leave our schedules open for your whims?) So we dropped by the house to see them after driving 6 hours.
SD is very rude to DH, he asked her why she won't respond to him or agree to see him and she spits "IM BUSY" then leaves the room. She kept trying to get his attention then rejecting him when he spoke to her. It was like she was playing hard to get with a boy her age.
Anyway my daughter cried when she held her so she dropped her like a hot potato. She was upset with everyone, I think she picked up on my mood. There were 20+ people in the house and I was not comfortable at a potential super spreader event...
We leave and SD pouts that we are leaving already even though she had been making a big deal of ignoring us and BM was crazy texting her to come home too. SIL delivered her home.
DH attempted to call SD before she was dropped off but she refused to answer. He called SIL who was in the SAME CAR and talked to her. SD wouldn't speak to him but SIL said she wanted to come to our house next weekend for my daughter's birthday. I have told my husband repeatedly I don't want to do a party this year because of Covid and me being pregnant. He agrees...
So next weekend he thinks only SIL and SD will come, but the whole damn family is going to show up because that's how they are, they will trash my house, use gallons of shampoo, overstay their welcome, kiss my baby on the mouth and SD will be there playing games to get DHs attention so she can reject him while pretending to be here for her sister. He just gave a brstty attention hungry game playing SD12 center stage at my daughter's first birthday.
WTF. Is 5 days enough to get divorced?