Sooo my sister told me a super sad story this morning.  About a two weeks ago she was telling me how the BM of her friend's Niece's had sent a mass text out letting them know the older SD had died.  That's the first they've heard from the BM in MONTHS.

About 4 months ago she decided to up and move accross the county, took both the girls and left, has been denying the BF visitation. he's been sending CS and care packages, and everything he can while he was working on getting a court case together to (hopefully) get it enforced (we all know how likely that was...).  She still was denying anything.

Naturally at this point the BF drops everything and travels accross the country to figure out what the he!! happened to his daughter.  The younger one is in the hospital, CPS opened a case after the death of the first one, and the younger one was immeadiately taken and placed in the hospital for a number of things, including giant lice, internal diseases that are affecting her organs, and what looks like very possibly sexual abuse.  They think she  be able to pull through, but she can't leave the hospital for a minimum of probably several more weeks to a month and will need follow-up visits, and CPS is running background checks on everyone, including BF, that SD will be living with after this to hopefully prevent anything further from happening.  They have decided to regive full custody to BF assuming everyone passes background checks and remove visitation rights from BM.

They did the boipsy this weekend I guess,  The older one died becuase she had scabies so bad it was literally eating her from the inside out, a lot of her organs were missing large chunks, plus the lice, and the same signs of sexual abuse as the younger one, just everything was progressed way worse (obviously).

BM is now claiming that BF sent "no support" and as a "single mom" how could she have noticed?  Thankfully Sister's friend had been helping BF document EVERYTHING he sent, and everything was sent with tracking, or through the bank, so they can confirm it was delivered to her. 

I just super feel for that kid.  And I really hope BM gets hit with every charge in the book for this.  Hopefully no judge is stupid enough to believe that there was any feesible way she couldn't have noticed something this severe.  This is so many levels of wrong.