Ghosts Walking - OT | StepTalk.org

One upon a time..... Roughly 6 years ago, shortly before my entrance (the fairly quick exit) into stephe!!, I went on a date. This man was very nice, held all my same values, was cute, and I enjoyed his company, at the end of the date, he proceeded to ask for a second. I said yes (duh, I was into him) and then he never messaged or spoke to me ever again.

I wrote him off like any sane person would do.

However this last week, mr ghost messaged me. Wanting to "catch up." Once I got over the shock I attempted to have a conversation. Where it was realized we are NOT compatible, however mr. ghost is being very insistent and tried to appeal to my love of gaming to get me to game with him and his homies. During which I accidentatlly said "s***" and was informed how that makes him unfcomfortable.

I have been avoiding his messages since, after a brief, we're not compatible, please stop" message. However, like most dead things, Mr. Ghost doesn't seem to understand no and has proceeded to ask when I'll be visiting my family next so he can "finally take me on that second date."

Apparently there's a shortage of females and Mr. Ghost forgot what no means. So I guess I'm now becoming the ghost.

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6 years ago

Wow, he must be desperate LOL.

Probs one of those "I got

Probs one of those "I got dumped and can't find prospects... wait... That girl from forever ago...." LMAO

Six years, he must have just

Six years, he must have just gotten out of a relationship and is dusting off his list of next possible victims. Good thing you cught on quick and ghosted his a$$ this time.

That's honestly my guess. no

That's honestly my guess. no other reason he'd randomly approach like that.

Definitely block. What a

Definitely block. What a weirdo.

FYI, it's not ghosting when

FYI, it's not ghosting when you tell him you're no longer interested but he continues to bug you. What you've done is set healthy boundaries with someone who doesn't understand what consent means, and that's EXACTLY what you should do.

So no, not a ghost. Though if he keeps up these shenanigans, he'll certainly think every woman is a ghost since none will talk to him.

Definitely learned a lot. I

Definitely learned a lot. I doubt I'd be able to have done this a few years back

He had the guts to say the

He had the guts to say the word Sh** made him uncomfortable when you left it fly?

Did he stop to think randomly messaging you after 6 years....about your personal travels to your family made YOU uncomfortable? Good Lord.

You dodged that one for sure...........whewww.

Right?

He sounds like one heck of a Nice Guy. Reddit has an whole sub dedicated to them.

What's great is you've done work on yourself and were quickly able to see he wasn't a good fit. Looking good, PAI!

I stream on twitch now

I stream on twitch now speaking of "nice guys." Got a message fro a random guy saying I looked nice. So I said thank you and he literally gave me a 3 paragraph summary of how "nice" a guy he is. he's now banned from my channel. lmao

I was ghosted once

We'd been dating for a couple months and had been having amazing sex. On one of our dates, he left my house saying he was getting cigarettes and never came back. A month later he calls and said he was stopped by the police , dropped his phone in a puddle, couldn't remember the way back to my house and a bunch of other weird things. I was like "no thank you. Lose my number." People who those are wired weirdly. I remember he had a daughter and I had never met her. I know I dodged a bullet