It happened on the way to the hardware store. He asked what time we want to leave. I told him we really don't want to go-we would rather stay home and do girly stuff.

He was angry about it but saved his outburst for public display just outside the store. (I could see this coming he likes to force me into submission by humiliating me on public)

He yelled at me, waved his arms screaming fuck it we're going home. I turned to walk away and walk home then he said let's get this done.

The people in the store saw what was going on and weren't too enthused about waiting on us. It was some time before the mgr finally came up to me and mixed my paint for me.

I paid for the paint and waited outside-didn't want to go hunt him down after his outburst.

We drive home and he is yelling about how he has the right to be angry. He might not be around that much and just wants to spend time with his family(trying to lay guilt trip on me and throwing in the cancer card he is a cancer survivor)

I calmly tell him that what he did outside the hardware store is exactly why DD and I aren't going and that all the hard work he did with radiation and chemo will be for nothing if he blows up and has a heart attack.

He then tellse well if I die you'll finally get what you want( another attempted guilt trip we are all just sitting around here waiting for the poor man to die)

If I was really like that I would 't be trying to get a job a d working so hard around here.

I'm not expecting a dime when he goes. He'll probably cut me out. Of everything since I(his words) only see him as a meal ticket and am just waiting for him to die.

We go home and work on our project.

Later he grabs a beer and is going to water the front yard"I'm sure the neighbors think I'm an alcoholic asshole anyway"

Boohoo.

I told him I wouldn't worry because they already think I'm such a lazy bit h I can't even remember to put dinner on the table without him "straightening" my ass out a couple of times a week.

Other than that pretty I eventful.

Love the guilt trips

Really

(Eye roll)