Social media and skids pic posting
A little annoyed- DH called SIL who lives in another state to wish her a merry Christmas. She follows me on instagram and Facebook. When SS8 stb9 was here for his Christmas visitation, we went to this nearby well-known park one afternoon (the time when SS cried about having a wet sock) for an afternoon of family fun. Needless to say- the crying diminished the fun part. But anyway, I post photos of DS on social media occasionally, maybe 2-3 times a month and all of my accounts are private. SIL comments that she saw the pic but that she didn’t see any of SS. Mind you, I’ve NEVER posted any photos of SS. I barely post any photos of DH. There are several reasons for not posting photos of SS- I’m pretty private, I don’t care for him much, and if I were a BM I wouldn’t like it if my child’s SM posted photos of him on social media.
This SIL participants in the “SS is a poor COD” with the rest of the Inlaws, so I felt like this was a passive aggressive comment. And because DH didn’t allow FIL and MIL to come visit this time during SSs trip, apparently I’m now supposed to post pics of SS for their viewing pleasure.
So now SM needs to worry about how often she posts pics of skids on SM. More of a vent. Thinking about removing all of them from social media but that seems like an aggressive move.