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PB's picture

Hello everyone,

Hope you are all good.

I just wanted to updat eyou about my situation.

Actually i can say there is no change! DH still not working, he didnt even work 1 day in this season. 

The only positive thing is SD moved to the other part of the city with her mom. So we have at least half an hour istance at the moment.

That's the only good thing happened for me. But still Dh goes and bring her to our home quite much. So we still have fights about this. For example the last sunday she left (she stayed for 4 bloody days) and today DH called me at work to say i'm going to see SD. I told him ok you can go see her spend time with her for a few hours and leave her to her mom at her home. Thats where the fight starts. What do you mean he said? cant i bing my child to our home? he said. I said well you child was here for 4 days 2 days ago, and i think we also need time to be alone together so give us a few days. So he started to shout on me that you ruined our lives with these small things and why you do this everytime and bla bla bla. 

And SD is getting worse and worse, she is watching youtube channels and one night when we checked her phone, she commented under the youtube videos and she seared and wrote F... you rmom and such this thing... She is getting very rude, whatever you tell her she do the opposite and i can't stand her close to me more than 2 days. 

Very difficul times...

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PB's picture

Of course he is able to work. He is only 40 years old, he is healthy, he can work every day easily. But he doesnt! He is unresposnsible, he gets lasy and he is.... I know you would think i'm stupid that i work and he stays home... i know...

thinkthrice's picture

Get worse.   My 1st husband did not want to work UNLESS it was a p/t FUN job where he could be looked up to.

Enter minimum wage EMT.  Nothing against first responders but a lot have strange attitudes/mentalities.  

My 2nd was an abusive alcoholic.  He would get a job but then blow it by getting a DWI, etc

BOTH went on welfare after we split up.