Please advice
So I am sick for a few days now, really pain in stomach and feel sick. Cant eat and I work from 8 am until 1 am today. I couldn't rest at home because Sd was there all the time and I just locked the door of bedroom to not hear her voice playing GTA with her friend. Today DH sister called me and she asked why is your voice not good I told her I'm not good she said its stress and it's all about the stress my brother gives you. Did he start the job I said no. Did she left SD at home to she can learn to live there and wait for SD a few hours, I said no. Sister said ok that's it I'm done with my brother, I'm gonna call him for the last time. She called Dh and they had a big fight and Dh hang the phone off on his sister. Dh left me a message that how dare you talk with my family and fill them against me and used a few bad words. Sister called me and said just leave him. I left him as a sister you leave him as wife, he is not a man for you. You are paying for their everything and he used very bad words behind you she said. I'm just done. I'm going to stay and sleep in my office tonight dont want to see his face even. Please tell me what to do. I didn't want to make two family members relationship bad. I feel guilty but sister said I'm enough with his behaviour. I'm trying to work but I'm going to WC and cry. I'm so lonely and poor.
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Covid?
Your symptoms sound like what I recently experienced with covid. Get tested, your health is the most important thing. The sooner you start Paxlovid, the better.
Once you're better, dump him.
Here's a full proof way of
Here's a full proof way of this, and all the other DH b.s. you write about, to never happen again:
LEAVE HIM
PB, divorce him. He is so NOT
PB, divorce him. He is so NOT worth all of this.
Lisen to his sister after all
Lisen to his sister after all she's known him longer.
You are not responsible for his relationship with his sister, he is. You can't ruin it anymore then he has already.
Why are you still with this
Why are you still with this joke of a husband? He makes you miserable all of the time, treats you badly, dumps his daughter on you while he does his own thing, bleeds you dry and refuses to work. WHY? Are you afraid of him?
I sincerely hope that you are the one holding the purse strings ...
You have nothing to feel guilty about.
Your idiot husband owns this. Not you.
Listen to your SIL. If there is any woman on the planet who knows how much of a piece of shit he is, it is his sister.
Save yourself. Move on.
Call your own family and move home until you can get a place of your own.
Never sacrifice yourself for someone who is unworthy of you.
His own sister has told you
His own sister has told you he is a loser.. that you should leave him.. that he talks badly about you. I think that is what should happen.
This is not his daughter's fault.. at all.. she is a normal kid.. at a parent's house with a friend.. this is all 100 percent your loser sponge of a husband's fault.
you lose him.. you lose all the problems.
And.. you likely won't be as poor if you stop supporting him and his child.