Updates...Employer forced torture, SD and DH and Beaver update
I survived the "all hands" two day meeting..As I thought most of it was not worth being in person. The personality test proved out that I'm most definately not a people person and I do best working alone. I'm highly analytical and I'm good at creating structure and figuring out solutions. All good for my job....sucks for the "let get togerher people thing". Bonus....my co-worker was about the same..we joked he is the Vulcan and I'm the Romulan of our group. yep...we are geeks...can you tell?
Sd..oy....that girl is hot mess walking
Right before school SD and DH had her hair done....galaxy hair. Oy...I knew that would be disaster because SD's hair is really dark like DH's. Took the hair stylist 2 times to lift it enough to dye the blue and purple. (note..my stylist would have told her no because her hair was too dark and SD doesn 't take care of it). SD works with kids teaching swimming...her hair is now a just a fried mess. The blue/purple dye has come out (those colors are hard to hold) and the bleached part is now sticking to together like it has glue in it. SD doesn't wash her hair right after getting out of the pool and the cholorine has further killed it. I hate to tell SD..but that bleached shiz needs to just be cut off.
We still have the eyelashes..the extensions she had put in last all of a week since SD doesn't take care of those either. So she is back to gluing the catapillars to her eyelids. Then...she didn't like the shape of her eyebrows...so she shaved off the ends of her eye brows. She now looks like Spock...smh on this one. She just draws in the ends of ther eyebrows.
Finally, SD went and got acrylic nails. She is complaining they are not long enough. ( they are plenty long and how can you have them when you have to hold little kids in the water). I'm waiting to see how long they last when submerged in chlorine water for hours on end.
I just got a new tattoo...and SD informed me she wants one. A mermaid on her rib cage. Ooofff....yea. My standard answer for that is....when you are 18 you can get what you want. SD piped in ...oh her mom might take her and sign off on her getting that tattoo. Oh boy....tattoo's are so permanent.
DH...well things are pretty good on that front. He is stressed with work and a certification test he has to take. However, this time around he is NOT using me as his whipping post. That is a change...however, I have also changed and will not allow it either. We have our ups and downs...but lately its mostly up and he is doing the work and is being transparent on things. So, things are looking up..but I will admit I will never trust him implicitly again. I've been upfront about that..he certainly doesn't like he shattered that but accepts it.
Beaver has moved on to a new job....but apparently she doesn't like it and is already looking for new one. She is working at an elderly rehabilitation center here in town for the time being. So, we will see...how that plays out. I thought she has been quiet lately....and now we know why.