BM and DH Texts, texts and more texts
The texting always initiated by BM has been going on for months. Even the therapist told DH to stop responding. He has not. If he doesn't respond oldest SD texts and wants to know why he hasn't responded. His phone is glued to him these days, never was before. I can't sleep at night. He wants to know what is wrong. How many times can I possibly tell him to cut her out of our lives. He responds that it will calm down after the upcoming wedding. I notice that he is not telling me that it will stop.
To be honest I got a hold of his phone at one point and blocked her but he unblocked her when skids asked why he wasn't responding to BM.
He keeps telling me that we are going to get through this rough patch but I am not so sure. I mean really the ball is in his court.
This is our first time in therapy and he isn't happy about it but going however he is not following any of the advice given.
I pretty much put it all on the table when we were there and he became very defensive and was not happy.
I want our life back that did not include BM.
I have always encouraged his relationship with the skids with or without me....most of the time without.
Also I was thinking about saying something about this to her DH at the upcoming wedding if I have the opportunity. She seems to run that poor guy but he is always on social media stating that she is the love of his life. Comments please.