Here we go again
Skids were invited for dinner at our house. DH couldn't get an answer and we needed to go to the market. While we are at the market he got a text that they weren't coming.
DH is so concerned about mending fences. How are you supposed to do this when you graciously invite them for a meal and they can't be bothered.
Well I guess the skids and BM came up with a plan. They invited DH to one of their houses for dinner. I am sure BM will be there and I am equally sure that I am not invited or welcome.
DH is telling me that I should go with him and support him. Are you kidding me?
I will have a lot to tell the therapist in our next session. I am so sick of this.
He knows how I feel about all of this. He sets no boundaries with any of them. If they say jump he jumps because he wants to see the skids and grandskids so bad and if he doesn't they will cut him off. It's all just a game.
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i could have written word for word
your story 15 years ago. Chef set no boundaries as well and the Girhippo (BM) wanted to play happy family by inviting Chef over for "family dinners." Bad idea!
That's right...teach the kids that mommy rules and daddy drools.
WTF?
I just commented on your most recent post but didn't realise that not only were you invited but your DH would be choosing to dine with BM. Whatever for? They have no reason to dine together, I would be livid if my DH left me home to go play happy families with his kids and BM. I would tell him if he enjoys socialising so much with BM and the skids he should go back to her and they can be a "happy family" for real.
Sorry No Name, but this would be a massive red flag for me and I would be looking at other options.