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Where's this coming from

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SO talked to SD11 and SS9 last night and asked each of them if they want to come over this weekend.

SD, of course, said yes.

SS has been super extra bad in school last two weeks because he hasn't been to our house and had to face consequances. When SO asked him if he wanted to come over this weekend SS said--If I come over are you going to spank me AGAIN. :jawdrop: :?

I was shocked when SO told me this. In 5yrs I can only think of one instance that SO spanked his kids. They snuck down to the pool (we were living in an aptment) with a friend and no adults were there. They were 5 & 7 at the time.

When SO told him he hasn't spanked him in years, SS said that's not how he remembers it.

Where is this coming from? Is SS trying to manipulate SO and get him to NOT give consequences if he comes to our house. Is his BM putting this shit in his head. Or is he just delusional?

SO said that if SS thinks he's going to blackmail him then he can just stay at BM's house.

This is getting out of control.