SS didn't come over this weekend...First of many?
It's been 3 weeks now since BM got engaged and the craziness is worse than ever. Which I don't understand. They guy has been living with her at least since Oct and now she starts the crazy. I have no clue what is going through her mind.
She is PASing like mad. SS9 told SO Thursday night that he didn't want to come to our house because he is going to have "real" family time with BM and BT Fiancé. SS also told SO that he is allowed to lay in bed with them and have "family" talks. Whatever that means. When further questioned by SO, SS admitted he wanted to stay at BM's because he can play his tablet until it dies and would be grounded at our house because he punched a kid in school on Wednesday.
I have never seen SO so upset. When he got off the phone, his eyes where blood shot and glassy. He was trying not to cry. He said he has lost his only son.
FF to Saturday. We took SD to Disney. It was awesome without SS whining and complaining the entire time. SO even admitted it was more fun and if SS didn’t want to come to our house any more than that is his choice. He said he is not going to buy SS's love with video games. I was proud of him but I'm apprehensive. SS is only 9. I personally don't think he should have a choice, but I'm not complaining.
I didn't have to raise my voice the whole weekend. I didn't have to hear any whining and didn't have to spend the entire weekend doing makeup homework. SD was great and I think she was happy to get a break from SS. She said she was happy and sad he wasn't with us.
I'm not sure what the future is going to look like. BM has NEVER wanted her kids. To the point that SO would have to track her down at bars because she wouldn't be at home for drop off. I can't count how many times he has been late for work because he couldn't find her and had to take the kids to school the next morning. For now, she is acting like she has been MOTY this entire time and the kids are better off with her instead of us.
I know it's going to be hard on SO. His son is choosing video games over spending time with him. I'm really starting to not like SS.
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That's what I told SO. If
That's what I told SO.
If SS has the choice of playing video games at BM's 24/7 or coming to our house where he has rules and consequences, He is going to choose BM's. I know this is going to sound harsh, but I don't really see true emotion toward anyone from SS.
When SO comes home from work on Friday, SD will run out and kiss him and tell him how much she misses him. SO has to pry SS off of whatever screen he is on to even get a hello. Maybe it's just 9yr old boys? I don't know. This is the first 9yrs old boy I've dealt with.
I don't believe so. He is
I don't believe so. He is with BM Sun - Thur and allowed all the screen time he wants.