Speaker phone.
First, I can't stand it and same for SO.
SS17 talks fo BM on speaker phone. Every. Single. Time. It's not that often that we catch it but probably like once a month. He has been talking to her more recently though. She doesn't have an iPhone so it's not FaceTime. Regular phone call.
Now it's not like it's quite speaker..it's volume all the way up so you can hear the whole convo speaker.
I am honestly starting to think he possibly is doing this on purpose. SS17 is BM that what triggers this thought for me.
SS17 had a tooth that had to be pulled down on Tuesday. Very minor, 45 minutes, required a little laughing gas.
I am assuming SS17 texted BM AFTER he got it done on Tuesday by the phone call I over heard tonight.
I heard SS17 talking about it and I heard BM say "oh I wanted to talk to you about that" "I had noooo idea you were getting surgerryyy!!!" "No one tells me anything and everyone probably thinks I don't care about my kidsssss." Like he got got a kidney transplant or something.
I was in the bathroom brushing my teeth (door was open) SS17 was in his room with the door open. So I could hear clearly. I finish brushing and I go in our room. SO was laying down but couldn't hear exactly what was being said. So I told him and he's like great I'll probably get into it with her tomorrow. I said meh, I don't know.. I think she knew but, I think SS17 talks on speaker on purpose.
I told SO if she wants to start shit you can ask her for $200 of the $400 you had to spend on that surgeryyyyy.
I'll ad another BM fun fact: 2 years ago she was in the hospital with a kidney infection and went off on SO because he didn't bring the skids to see her................. SO told her that was her husbands job....... right?? BM said someone should be teaching them "how to be kind thoughtful souls!" Oh not manipulative, forever victim, selfish, etc like you are?? LOL
BM sounded pretty medicated on speaker tonight. Not surprised. No normal person who lives 10 minutes away and only sees her kids a handful of times a year right?
Anyways, (this got long lol)
Has anyone else ever thought their skids purposely talk on speaker with bio for reaction from other bio/step parent?
Edit: he only does this with BM.
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She knows she's on speaker
She knows she's on speaker phone but probably doesn't realize that you can hear all the conversations. So, next time he does this, call out from the background "Hey, say hello to your mom from us! We just LURVE hearing all your news with her!" Bet he'll turn it down the next time.
She may know because I was in
She may know because I was in the back talking to the dog and SD. I think it's a combo of both of them doing it on purpose in a weird way.
Some people are just not
Some people are just not bright enouigh to work out that speaker phone works both ways
That if she can hear you then you can hear her 
I'm pretty positive she knew
I'm pretty positive she knew she was on speaker that's why she said what she said. She wanted SO or even me to hear what she was saying. This was late too. Around 10pm
Your DH needs to tell SS to
Your DH needs to tell SS to take his phone calls without being on speaker, or close his door and lower the volume. If he's doing it on purpose, he needs to be called on it. And if he's not doing it on purpose, he needs to realize that it's annoying to others to take phone calls on speaker in front of them.
And I hope DH ignores any nonsense he gets from BM. Unless the CO says he has to inform BM of medical issues, then SS17 can do it himself.
Does BM have regularly scheduled visitation that she just doesn't take?
I told him he should say
I told him he should say something to SS17 about the speaker phone.
BM has NOT taking her visitation since may 2018. Technically she gets sat/sun every other weekend. That hasn't happened since the money stopped. Not even a single dinner at her house. Skids haven't been to her house since Xmas Eve last year, time before that was Xmas eve 2018. She's a loser but comes across as a "good mom" type to strangers. If you met her you would have no idea of who she is.
Another fun fact to give some
Another fun fact to give some more background. I started seeing SO nov. 2015. So our first real Xmas together was 2016. He had to work all day Christmas Day. So we planned Christmas morning at our house then I dropped the skids off at BMs and I was going to met up with SO around 11 at his job and hang out since he wouldn't be getting home till 6. Xmas Eve BM informs SO that she had plans and was dropping skids off around 2. WTF. I scrambled to buy food to make a Christmas dinner.
So she was ok with dropping her kids off to me on Christmas f'n day instead of spending with them knowing their father had to work all day. That's when I started seeing her true colors.