Thursday SD18 had a pinning ceremony at her school because she will be graduating with her CNA. She is going to college for nursing so she has this little step up already. 

SD told us BM will be attending… whatever we don’t care. I assumed her mom would be attended with her for back up. 

We really haven’t seen her since SS20s high school graduation in 2022. We saw her last year, but she sat far away in a corner as she only attended one of SDs lacrosse games last year. 

I said to SO I wouldn’t be surprised if her or her lunatic mother say something to him.... 

So there are only 13 students in the class so not a lot people. The ceremony was 20 minutes and then they basically dismiss us for refreshments. Some parents stay on to take pictures. The staff took pictures with the students etc. 

SO and I leave the auditorium and where hanging out outside of there waiting for SD to come out because we knew BM and the mom would be being their fake selves… specifically BM acting like she is/was an involved parent… hovering over SD. We weren’t the only parents hanging outside and I was talking to one of SDs friends mom (who BM has no clue who she is that this woman drove her kid to school for an entire year) while we were waiting.

Anyways..

Here come BM and the mom walking out of the auditorium..

BM “she thinks you guys left.”

SO and I Ignore her.

BM **louder** “She thinks you guys left you MIGHT want to go back in there!.” She says this in the most condescending tone.

SO and I ignore her.

They walk out.

My blood is instantly boiling. Who the f does she think she is telling US what to do???! I was enraged. If we weren’t on school grounds I’m not sure how that would have went down. 

SD comes walking about shaking her head. BM was in there saying how SO and I probably left because “we didn’t want to be there because she was” and that “we probably had something better to do.”

Unbelievable. Coming from someone who hasn’t done anything for her kids in well over a decade. Has created no memories, no financial help, hasn’t done a f’n thing. 

And just for a reference I’m very much a a type “A” personality person so you can imagine my rage. 

These women just don’t know when to quit!!

SD graduates this coming Thursday so hopefully after this we won’t see her for 4 years until SDs college graduation. 

I really try not letting her get to me , but man! She got me!!

And like always... I was right! I knew it was coming because this is the 1st opportunity she's had to say something and she can't control herself.. she thrives for attention. We cant give it to her.