So this isn't even a rant or a vent, just a sad delusion.
I get home from work today and SO tells me that SD13 told him that BM wanted to get her some school stuff. So I say like clothes or something? He says no pens and pencils. (We have bought them everything already. They start Tuesday)
He tells me that SD told him this on maybe Tues/wed. He didn't tell me when SD told him but whatever. So he was thinking that BM was going to pick SD up at some point this week and take her out. Nope, BM bought them on amazon and had them shipped to our house. She couldn't have spent more then $20 dollars.
As a reminder, she lives 10 minutes away. She hasn't taken SD out since August of last year. She took SD last summer to get her nails done a few times and come to find SD had to pay for her own nails twice so BM was her Uber driver pretty much. BM attend her basketball games this winter but, still missed 3 of them and lied about why she didn't come to her playoff game. "She didn't get the email" texted SD the next day about it.
So, I say to SO are you f'n kidding me?! She had it shipped here? I just say she's such a loserrrrr. I say to SO, do you honestly think she thinks she's a good mother? (We have had these conversations plenty of times but I always ask when need fit) He says, YES! She does.
I just shake my head.. I said I bet her and her husband went away for the long weekend maybe why amazon was the better option or she wasn't planning on taken her anyways.
The fact that BM in her delusional mind set thinks she is actually a good mom is insane to me. She barely sees them, doesn't contribute financially, (I don't consider bday, Xmas, or $20 on pens and pencils as contributing) no doctor visits, nothing. She texts them and a phone calls once and while. SO, goes i didn't really want her coming here but, it's f'ed she didn't take her. I just shrug my shoulders.
Then he wonders why I get mad when he answers her calls LOLL.