BM sometimes keeps SO's son from visiting saying he screams and cries and she has to bribe him to come (has even threatened to make a false report someone here is hurting him) We were under the impression it's because he wants to go to his uncles to watch WWE (he's 5 and has already been in trouble at daycare for acting out wrestling moves on other kids) We don't allow it to be watched here.
So we figured BM was using the promise of that to make him not want to come. Sometimes when he does come he's screaming and crying saying he doesn't want to be here, he wants his mommy, misses mommy like a child being tortured. Other times he's just fine and everytime he gets in the house he stops screaming and has a good time.
Well turns out my cousin has had to move in with her parents and they now live right next door to BM! BM doesn't know her neighbors are my family. Turns out from what we're hearing BM NEVER has her son he lives at her brothers because "I don't have time to drop him off at daycare." yet she has time to drop SO's dd, and her half sister at school and has to drive past his daycare to get to work. So his crying and screaming is honest he misses his mom because he doesn't see her doesn't live with her at all anymore except weekends sometimes.
So how can SO address this to his DS about missing his mommy, and how can we prove he's not living with her all we have is word of mouth and no real proof?