BM wants to give us custody
And by golly she can stay miserable.
TLDR we moved 1000 miles so my SO could be by his kids who BM moved away.
Oldest SD has always loved me. To the point she wanted my haircut and always over talks to her mum about me. Suddenly this weekend in front of SD BM brings up her staying here for awhile ( implied a week).OK. wish she would have asked us prior but whatever
Later SO has a FaceTime call with daughter. We bring up hey when she's here we will need you to deal with her after school til we get off work ( she has a non customer facing at home job). She says we should get a nanny.. wait for a week?
So there's either some misunderstanding here or BM wants SD6 living with us away from her sister (3) and farther from her school with us in a loft apartment?
Unsure what to do. If she pulls this I'm looking onto adopting SD but truly unsure if this is legit or a ploy on BMs part.
Anyone been here?