Place your bets. You folks were right on child catcher
Quick tl;dr on my semi plight
Moved 1000 miles away with fiancee ( now DH) to chase after newly hippie dippie BM. BM is a disney mom since moving here . We had to get SD6 off bottles and cosleeping. SD3 rarely stays but she took herself off bottles after apparently puking it up at BMs
Weekend before last SD3 actually stayed over and almost the whole weekend but BM kept facetiming literally offering ice cream for her to come home
SD3 did turn it down but we were supposed to have her last Tuesday, last Thursday and this Tuesday
Surprise! Only SD6. I brought up this to DH and he gives the usual what can we do yadda yadda
Bets if she even shows for this weekend? I'm hoping so but also realizing I should disengage not from the girls but the situation with their bios.
Until there's a court order BM will screw with things. The only foot down DH does is denying the kids on her weekends unplanned.
Going to focus on having fun with the kids when they are here and not on their bizarre attitude. If DH needs to vent on BM doing weird shit he can go elsewhere