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SS13's Continued medical drama

justmakingthebest's picture

So, I called the pediatrician here to get the doctor notes for the Non-diagnosis of Ehlors-Danlos that were sent by the genetics clinic. The receptionist goes, "oh Mrs. DH, you called and had him transferred from this clinic... wait... what was your name again?" - I tell her - She says "Did you used to have a different last name?" - I say yes, and give it to her. Then she tells me she can't talk to me. 

I knew BM had me blocked from there but DH and I thought we had it worked out. Getting a Medical POA to stop the BS. DH is active duty military. SS does spend time with us, the way she has tried to set it up with the doctor in our state, I would not be able to take him if DH was unable to leave duty. Not very smart BM. 

Anyway, I call the genetics clinic, they are sending what I need for the lawyer. But WTH! She just does everything she can to try and block us from or just all out lie medical info! Even trying to get rid of our doctor in a different state than her! I hate this B so freaking much! 

Oh! we also got all of the notes from the cardiologist. I tracked all of that down, only took about 3 months of dealing with insurance to get it... Got all of his notes from there. Turns out that even though she told us he did all of his follow ups over a year ago, she only did it as of April of this year. So she lied about that too. And the big heart condition that she told us was just puberty after we went up the chain digging there- turns out that they believe it was just the cartilage in the connected area of the ribs stretching (growing pains). Because NOTHING is wrong with SS. Growing Pains/ Puberty whatever... she just didn't want him to go on vacation with us. She found something traumatic to try and stop us. No wonder she hates me so much. DH used to just accept whatever she said and was afraid to fight her. I will not allow for this crap to keep going. 

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ProbablyAlreadyInsane's picture

Bm removed me from the school list and medical list last year... She was absent for a ywar. But hey! Let's go ahead and block the adult who's with them from being able to do things. All it is, is pettiness. 

It's unbelieveable the length these people will go thorugh for no forking reason besides that they want to. Because who cares what's best for the kid. Right?

I love dogs's picture

I might've missed it but what does the CO say about the parents sharing medical information with each other?

justmakingthebest's picture

So, the state law says that neither parent can withold. They have the most vauge agreement in history. You will have to read back to some of my blogs. Essentially it was a 5 year divorce. BM refused to agree to anything, so the courts just kept pushing it out. In the end she would only settle on 3.5 weeks in the summer and spring break. We were supposed to go back for more time but her lawyer keeps blocking ours. We are getting ready to go back again and will have things like this formally put into the agreement along with hopefully requiring Our Family Wizard. 

I love dogs's picture

Will taking him to the geneticist affect you negatively since you didn't inform BM? Or are you hoping that because of the Munchausen Syndrome that the judge will side with you?

justmakingthebest's picture

We did inform her directly after. She also called and tried to get the appointment stopped- soooo she can't say she didn't know!

I love dogs's picture

I just feel so horrible for your SS.. What a circus he's going through. Why does BM want him to be sick?!

I love dogs's picture

Please excuse me while I puke- and NOT because of the morning sickness. This crap really grinds my gears!

justmakingthebest's picture

We are pretty sure that this is her long game. She doesn't work and is on disability herself, so I am sure she just looks at him and see $$$- not only from DH but from the "Gubment" now too!

ESMOD's picture

My YSD also had to get a full cardio workup to the tune of thousands of dollars because.. yes.. as you discovered. Growing pains.  BM was such a hysteric.

thinkthrice's picture

People wonder why medical costs are so darn high.  Probably due to all the Munchausen BMs running their kid's hangnail for an MRI