SS is gone
SS16 left yesterday. It was overall a good trip like usual. We had a great Christmas. We were able to Portal with my parents (since my mom can't be around people) and with MIL, so that was nice. My brother and his wife and Sister and NEW FIANCE!!! came over and hung out for Christmas eve and day. The other days we did a few things, lazer tag, axe throwing, Christmas lights at the park. It was good.
Now for the juicy stuff... after axe throwing (it was just DH, SS and me) some how phone calls got brought up in the car on the way home. I made a comment that it was "really fu**ed up" that SS ignores so many of DH's calls and texts. We witnessed him calling and texting and snap chatting nonstop while he was with us (DH wimped out on taking his phone). We know he CAN do it, he us just being an ass and not doing it. He said it was because we tried to get him mom put in jail over the "letter thing" (you know the whole forging the health department document). I reminded him that all we did was question the 2 differing documents and the police and city attorney took over from there. SS also said that it was all fine and got "worked out". (We emailed the sheriff and found out that was not true THANKFULLY!) I reminded him that the whole "letter thing" was just in the past week. So why is he acting like an A$$ the rest of the time?
Then I went in to ask him if it was me he hated. Things got really bad after DH and I got married. Do you hate me? Do you want time with just your dad more? Is there something I have done or haven't done? etc- He refused to talk.
When he left he hugged me and did say "I love you and will miss you"- all on his own. I told him that I love him and will miss him too.
Oh!!! Also, this summer he wants to go around and check out different colleges on the east coast with DH and I... so that was kind of crazy.
So basically, who knows what is going on in his head. He thinks that it is over with the criminal aspect from his mom, but that isn't true. So I really wonder what will happen next.