MIL went to see SS17
MIL sent us a little update, she went to see his band concert. She sent a picture of the 2 of them. Told us where he is working now. Blah, blah, blah.
It was super sweet that she drove an hour to see him play. She hasn't seen him since October when he was in a parade for band in her town, and only saw him, didn't get to speak to him. I was happy to hear that SS spoke to her and was willing to take a selfie with her. But beyond that fact that hearing he wasn't a total d*ck to his grandmother, I DGAF. Like literally no F's left to give.
I guess I was surprised in how little emotion I felt when reading about it. It was like reading a message about someone I don't know... which I guess is the case now. I used to be so passionate about DH being in SS17's life. He was too! I used to care so much. I just don't anymore. The only thing I care about is ending the financial side of the bulls**t.
PS- update on that. Our lawyer sent subpoenas out to both her local branch office and the main headquarters for employment records. The first sent out 11 weeks ago, the 2nd 4 weeks ago. They never got back a confirmation of delivery from the sheriff's office. The paralegal thought that was super strange. So, doing my due diligence, I called the court clerks in those towns and sheriff's offices- apparently they don't keep records on if out of state subpoena's were served- so there is a good chance it NEVER HAPPENED. Now we get to hire a private process server. So that's cool. Just more money down the drain to prove that she works full time and is a liar.