My SD17 is not in our lives, but manages to cause drama where she goes. My husband has no relationship with her now, we have given up and she is still not being medicated properly or seeing a therapist so DH is not communicating at all since the vacation over Christmas.

DH is on a plane to Japan and I am sitting here bored already and he is leaving for two weeks. Checked Twitter and that brat is bragging about getting a tattoo. She is under age. I called the tattoo parlor and didn't give me name, but wanted them to check ID and hung up. Nothing I can do. Can't tell my husband and won't tell BM anything, but damn, this girl is just ruining her life. Dh and BM had an email exchange last week where she told DH that SD was changing her major next year from Hospitality to Pharmacy. DH sent her back an email just telling her she may want to check her grades that she is failing 4 out of 6 classes. Really pharmacy?

That woman has no idea what is going on with that kid. I keep reminding myself everyday that no matter what happens, I will not fall for this again and let her back in to our lives in anyway. So sad it didn't have to be this way, of she could have parented with DH the girl would have had a chance. We would have forced meds and therapy 4 years ago when we tried to work with BM. No encouraging the brat to sue us was better for her and no rules. Somebody besides me needs to check her damn twitter once in awhile. I don't tell DH most of the time, mentioned it to him last week that she had over 60 tweets fighting with an ex boyfriend and it looked like she was raging. DH never said anything, but the next day was that email from BM saying she didn't think SD was bipolar anymore, she is now BPD. DH mentioned in his reply, doesn't matter, meds are the same and treatment is the same. It just needs to be treated and what was her plan again! She is great about research but never actually forces the follow up. She may go to the therapist once in awhile. DH then mentioned that she may want to check twitter about the raging with the BF.

Now the question, do I tell him when he gets back? I think no, because nothing he can do except mention it to BM and she is probably ok with it.

I feel so bad for my husband and I get to spend the next two weeks worrying because if BM calls SS15 she will want to see him for her monthly dinner and she could demand he stay with her. SS was told not to tell her so that couldn't happen, but you never know. The CO gives all the power to SS but she could make it difficult for me. Sometimes being a SM sucks.