SD's Car: Place your bets now, folks
SD60 crashed her uninsured car last month and we bought a replacement. The whole situation was made worse by her stupidity, unpreparedness, self-pity and confusion, not to mention DH84's oncoming dementia. We had a month to get the car registered and license plates transferred.
Last week, I asked her when we had to get it done, answer, "A couple weeks". Wrong, it's due a week from today. DH and she agreed they would go tomorrow. I have already told him I refuse to be in a car with the two of them anymore (confusion, arguing, poor directions). So its on DH and SD.
In the middle of the purchase, DH kept getting confused so I listed each step, including what docs were needed. That seemed to help. Tonight, I heard him on the phone with her, "Well, if you dont think you'll feel well, we can go Tuesday". I know she hates dealing with bureaucracy. Which do you think will happen;
1) SD and DH go, have all necessary docs and achieve registration and license transfer.
2) SD is too unwell to go tomorrow. She's unwell the following day so DH throws one of his fits and she either recovers enough or they go Wednesday.
3) SD and DH go tomorrow but she's late and doesn't have all the docs.