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Submitted by jojo68 on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 11:13am

Well girls (and guys)...I have decided with a very heavy heart to leave my situation. This guy doesn't love me...he keeps me around to make his life easier...I want to be more than that and damnit I deserve better than that. I only wish the best for Princess. Maybe one day these people will wake up to the harm they are doing to this child. I'll keep in touch...thanks for the advice and the hugs!

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Pantera's picture

Submitted by Pantera on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 11:15am

Good Luck. Smile

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

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Submitted by TheWife on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 1:06pm

Can I ask, how did you come to this decision?

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"If it sounds like I think I am better than you, it's because I do."

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Submitted by Sita Tara on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 1:36pm

Good luck JoJo. I know we are kindred spirits. Keep in touch. PM me if you want to FB me.

Sita

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Submitted by TheBrightSide on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 1:55pm

JoJo...i'm almost 2 months into the separation. You're stronger than you think...although, its a struggle, everyday. It will get better. At least, my hope is that it will. I haven't died, even though at times I thought it would kill me. It hasn't yet. Be strong, breathe. Get through each day as it comes. And if that is too daunting, take it hour by hour.

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Submitted by Sita Tara on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 3:05pm

I am with you sista. Not dead yet, though the dreams are dying. Good to hear from you on here Smile You're behind me on the shock of it all, but ahead of me by nearly 2 mos on the separation. He is still moving his stuff out, and b/c of BD4 I've only had a day or two here or there where I have had a break from seeing him.

You are likely far more strong now than I am.

But we'll all get there together. It seems to be in the air this year. The year of the Tiger for sure.

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Submitted by smurfy1smile on Thu, 04/08/2010 - 2:05pm

wow - must be in the air. I left BF a couple months ago after thinking long and hard about the decision. He just wasn't taking care of his responsibilities regarding his BS2 and our BD14 or anything else for that matter. I have been in contact with BM a little due to her being concerned for the safety and well being of her BS2. BF has seen our BD14 once since we left and we live very close to each other - with walking distance. I found a sweet little apartment I can afford and the funny thing is I always have some disposable income now. I am making less money that I was with BF and am paying all the bills and I have more money - how does that work? Guess BF was more expensive than I thought = and he was supposedly living cheaply!

Good Luck and enjoy your new found freedom. I sure am, plus my house is way cleaner and quieter - no more yelling.