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Dont make excuses for them

JennyBunnyjj's picture

Let's stop excusing these devilish kids and their behavior because of their age. I could see if they are toddlers and don't know right from wrong. Im sick of people including my DH saying oh he's just acting his age. Bullshit, my son didn't act that way at that age, neither did my brother. I've only known one person who admitted to their son being a terror at that age, and he eventually grew out of it once he reached adulthood. It's not their age its your child. Giving them everything they want, threating them like the world revolves around them. Letting them act as adults act, letting them get away with murder. Treating them like babies, and talking to them in baby talk though they are 4,5,6,+ is why these kids are little shits. Then SM or SD comes along and tries to parent the kid firmly like they raise their kids and how they were raised as kids and all hell breaks loose. Now we are the bad guys...poor SK. Then these bratty ass Sk's start to rub off on our kids, and our kids are miserable and don't even want to live with us anymore- enough is enough. Too bad military school doesn't take them that young- I checked! :jawdrop:

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Frustr8d1's picture

That's why this country is full of Generation Me Me Me who refuse to move out of their parents house until they're 40 yrs old. Their entire lives are made up of excuses. Why would I treat BD with discipline and boundaries but let SD get away with murder because everyone feels so sorry for SD?

Well said JennyBunny.

StarStuff's picture

Yes, yes, yes! Thankfully my FDH does not coddle SD. We are firmly against raising an entitled brat. I cannot stand children like that. Makes me want to smack their parents for being idiots.

RedWingsFan's picture

YES Smile