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Submitted by jaja512 on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 11:37am

Ok so I don't know if people talk about this on there blogs but I'm at my ropes end my SD started her monthly and I explained everything to her about being clean and changing her pad several times a day and to rap the pads in toilet paper then throw them away. But she fails to do what I told her I went in to her room to get her dirty laundry and there was dirty pads, dirty underwear everywhere and I was like WTF she has a trash can in her room and a laundry basket but yet she throws them on her floor! I Clearly explained to her what to do but she's being so nasty omg idk what to do my boyfriend don't want to even hear about these things so idk what to do?

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 11:42am

yeah ewwwww. I don't have an SD so I won't have that issue but when it comes to the SS's I refuse to pick up their rooms. I run the vaccume in there once every 2 weeks and if it's not picked up I either don't or I run stuff over. Maybe your boyfriend would be more willing to talk to her about it if HE has to help her clean up.

I know it's nasty but that is why they invented doors. Smile

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Submitted by ThatGirl on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 11:43am

Quit doing her laundry. She's old enough to do it herself. Her Dad doesn't want to hear about it? He's content with raising a disgusting pig? Close the door to her room and forget about it, not your problem.

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Submitted by momagainfor4 on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 12:06pm

hormones are eating her brain!!! ugh!

Why would someone be changing their pad in their room? Ick.
I'd never do that.

My girls were very private about that kind of stuff. My youngest isn't as fastidious about disposal as my oldest one was. I had to reiterate that we all live in the same house, I do not want to see your nasty pad.
And likely she's picking it up from seeing it at school or public bathrooms where ppl just throw their stuff out like it's nothing. gross.

I think you're doing a great job by trying to work with her and help her get straight on this. Some kids have no one.

I'm really not looking forward to my sd12 starting this time in her life. She is very immature as it is. And I know she'll be too embarrassed to talk to her dad about this so I'll have to step up when the time comes! Hopefully, it'll happen on her mom's time and not mine. Although, she'd be lucky if it happened with me.. bc I'm awesome and celebrate becoming a woman!! I try to make it a good event.. even though it's a pain in the butt!! Smile

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Submitted by jaja512 on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 12:39pm

(Brokensmommy )that is funny I was the same way but my mother asked me when I was 12 miss did you start and I looked at her and said yes she told me that she started when she first turned 12 also and was wondering if I did the same . she didn't explain to me what to do she just threw me some bladder control pads and said here put them on. Sense I was the oldest I had to use those bladder control pads because I didn't have an older sister.. but I told myself if I had a daughter I would clearly explain to her it was normal and what to expect and make sure she didn't have to use any bladder control pads lol

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Submitted by simifan on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 3:09pm

Have Dad talk to her, if that doesn't work then threaten to post pictures of how nasty she is on FB... Blum 3

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Submitted by sonja on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 3:15pm

Yikes, super nasty, but I LOLed through the other comments above. I cant imagine being the one to have this conversation, on either end, hers or yours. I agree that dad needs to step in, he would be doing it if you werent there, so if shes not getting the hint, id turn it over to him and fast.

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Submitted by sarahmay on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 6:33pm

I have something similar .... disgusting snotting tissues and mucus left everywhere. My SS (12 yeasr old and very capable) leaves them everywhere, I will go to make the bed and I stick my hands under the covers straight into VILE MUCUS .... I have told him to use the trash can and to flush them in the toilet... he ignores me.....

I lost my mind the other day as I found my 8 month old daughter (who is crawling) picked one of his MUCUS tissues up off the floor..... I have had it toooooo .... I FEEL YOUR PAIN

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Submitted by sarahmay on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 6:37pm

I have to agree with Whimsey6 as I know it's all about control with him..... he is marking his territorial control.... he is doing it on purpose to get a re-action out of me, to get his Dad on side..... (Dad will side with me everytime regardless of whether what i have done is right or wrong - Blood is thicker than Water)