Tonight we (adults and kids) talked about visiting relatives. I didn’t realize it until now but DH has never taken the skids to visit one of his sisters who lives a good plane ride away. His sister has been in that location for over a decade. (And hasn’t take them to visit the others either.)

When we were first married DH, privately to me, bad-mouthed BM not taking the skids to visit her mother and her mother had been living in that location for a decade. 

DHs sister and BMs mother live in the same state. And the skids have seen both when they have made the effort to come here to visit. I don’t really see how one is any worse than the other.

Things that make me SMH