So in our last episode NMB (I think I finally have a nickname for BM - Not My Babies) found a stash of YSSs pot (and has not fessed up if she found OSSs) and we found out she took YSS to buy a second car six months ago. She's been dropping him off or he's driven OSSs car here the whole time so we didn't know. 

NMB picked up YSS yesterday from our house and took him to lunch. Dropped him back off and then picked him up later. DH asked YSS if NMB and he talked about the pot at lunch. No. So folks she didn't address it and the kid couldn't just eat food here. SMH

DH apparently made sure to listen for her when she came later and he confronted her about the car. Said he knows about the car and I guess she looked shocked/caught out. (So obviously her pookikins didn't give her a heads up at lunch.) DH told her that he has no say over her house but while they are minors he should be involved in and know about major things in their lives. (For the record she has now gotten or helped get each kid a car while they were minors without telling DH and it's in their decree that they have to agree on vehicles for them.)

I guess there is a statute of limitations on the ex having your balls and it's 10 years.