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BMs logic: how does this work?

IAmALady77's picture

Well, BM went and got herself a new boyfriend. The third one in 2 years, last one she was "engaged" to and he wanted to "adopt" SD lol. I wonder how long it will be before she moves in with this one and fills his head with lies about SO so he gets the urge to "save" SD too? :sick:

THIS one however, just like the last one, has 2 daughters. HIS daughters are 6 and 7 years old which means he had them when he was 20 and 21....OKAY.

EXXACTLY where does BM come off hating me for no reason? She realizes that by her own logic SHE is the "other woman" as well right? I wasn't "the other woman" she just likes to pretend in her crazy head that SO left her for me and I ruined their family even though they had been broken up for MONTHS. I wonder how she gets along with her BM??

Its just funny, I really hope she moves in and gets engaged to this guy too because god knows how STABLE that is for SD. SO is trying to get a mediation date so keep digging BM, keep digging.

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IAmALady77's picture

oh I didn't mean it like that! lol, meaning that shes always talking about how young and immature I am so why would SO be with me, there is no POSSIBLE way I can properly "parent" her precious daughter. Sorry forgot to mention that history in previous blogs lol sorry!

DaizyDuke's picture

Stability? Do they know what that means? Definitely NOT in BM dictionary! BM2 is the classic gotta have a new BF lined up BEFORE you break up with the current one. She would not be able to go even one milisecond without having someone to "take care" of her. She sets such a great example for SS13.

DH left her when SS was about 6 months old (thank God they never married) I think that was the only time she didn't have a BF, but she kind of still did because even though DH left her, she guilted him with SS and he did everything for her. Then she had it even better, when she got a new BF and DH STILL did everything for her, paid her rent, gave her money for groceries, diapers, bought her a car because she was still able to weild the SS guilt trip over DH. And then thankfully, DH started to smarten up and slowly started weening BM from his teet... but dammit, since then she has skipped from one BF to the next.. NEVER with a break in between. Her latest BF is 20. Which is hilarious since she is 38 and has a son of her own (not DHs) who is 20.... such a loser skank.

12yrstepmonster's picture

Hey our BM uprooted SD in her junior year moved her 1.5 hrs away, after dating him.......are you ready......7-8 months.

Bm kept her job in hometown and commuted, and scheduled one over night here!

1 yr later she's moved back and divorced.