SD asked to get our nails done.. What do I say?
I just got a text from SD that says: "can we get our nails done for your birthday (Sunday)? Or sometime this weekend?" From my previous post, I offered to take SD to get a haircut for her dance next Friday and was going to surprise her with an eyebrow wax after. She didn't want to go so I didn't bring up the waxing to not seem desperate or to bribe her.
I had to get my nails redone last Sunday because of breakage after a week so my nails are still fresh. I'm sure SD just wants a new set of nails for her dance next week. Someone told me to block her but that'll just be an earful I don't need and I can't ignore her either.
Do I say something like "I got my nails done less than a week ago and am not due yet but thanks for the invite"?? I think she wants this for self gain but maybe she's trying to do something for spring break and MAYBE she wants to spend time with her good ole SM.... Yeah right. Do I ask *when* she's coming back just to see her motive?
Ignoring her isn't an option and I'm sure she'll make her way back over here by Saturday night. My girlfriend invited us to dinner sometime this weekend but no plans yet and DH and I planned to go to dinner Sunday but that's it.
For the record, I don't want to take SD for a mani if I'm not getting one myself.
Edit: she did say that she wants to get her nails redone gold to match her dress and I agreed and said that I've had a pretty gold before.
Edit 2: I did take her for a gel mani 2 weeks ago this Sunday because I got one for myself and thought it could help our "bonding" after this CPS crap. 3 of my right hand nails completely cracked so I went in last Sunday to my normal place (they were busy so we went to a different place) to get them redone. SD's Spring dance is next Friday.